When it comes to attracting guys who are not afraid of commitment, it's all about becoming the girl that guys want to bring home and introduce to their family. Whether we acknowledge it or not, some women are more "marriageable" than others. If we want our man to commit, we have to show him that we are the kind of girl that he wants to marry.
So, how do you become the girl that your man wants to marry? Consider these tips:
Be committed. The best way to get him to commit is to already show your commitment to him and to your relationship. Demonstrate your readiness to be his mate "till death do you part" and make him feel that you truly love him.
Make future plans together. Include him in your future hopes and dreams. Be supportive of his personal goals but don't neglect to create goals that you achieve together, for example, saving up together for a vacation, for a car or for an apartment.
Give him space. The foundation of any serious relationship is love. And when we truly love somebody, we are supportive of their endeavors to reach their full potential. Allowing your man to have the space he needs shows him that you are mature enough not to demand every second of his time.
Be your own woman. A certain level of independence is attractive in a woman. It puts you on equal footing with your mate. Pursuing a career or being good in your trade tells a man that you pull your own weight in this relationship in all aspects - including the economic aspect of it.
Be pretty. Men are attracted to women who know how to pay attention to their appearance. They like being with someone they can "show off". It appeals to their vanity when they are envied by other men for their "good catch".
Getting married is something you should both be ready for. Talk about your future and assess your readiness for marriage. Don't look at marriage as a sign of his commitment to you. Instead, look at it from the point of view of the maturity and growth of 2 people in a relationship. If both of you are ready for that step, it will just naturally find its way into your life.
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