BEWARE OF SINGLE LADIES

Married men and bachelors should be very careful nowadays because of the way some ladies now lure them into committing fornication and adultery.  Some ladies are desperado they don't mind whether you are married or engaged they are out there to achieve their aim and objective, they are ready to send many housewife packing and running helter skelter for their husband. They have developed many strategies to achieve this. Some of their game  plans are
Immoral Dressing: Now are days in some offices, institutions and places of work some ladies now dressed in such a sexy way that you wonder whether they are doing body advert or boob/buttock  fashion:, they wear crazy dress that download and exposed their attracted body parts.  And as a man if you are not careful you will be carried away that you will not know when you will start behaving like a baby crying to suck mummy breast; you will be aiming serious relationship with this lady just to make sure you bang on her and reach the promise land. The lady on her part is willing to give you her body in exchange for money or material things. This is so common in the corporate industries especially in the servicing industry where some ladies now flirt about with different men to achieve their target and some of them end up expired for marriage or remain a single mother for life. There is high rate of unmarried ladies in this corporate industries.
Married Women Dating single/ married Men:  What will you call this? – It is civilization or under-civilization, it is so common nowadays especially in some part of the country to see a married women going after single or married men. This thing is so obvious in western part of the country. A case study is a woman in my neighbour-hood named Mama Fryo, she is married with four children to a very handsome and hardworking man (Baba Fryo) who sometime travels outside for a week for official job. They both live comfortable in a 3 bedroom apartment . They are very religious and spend more than six hours on weekly church services. Any time this man (Baba Fryo) is away this woman will invite a brother in their Church and they will have illicit affair, several time they were caught by neighbours. The irony of it all is that the husband knows this poor brother as friend and church member but unaware of illicit relationship going between his wife and this brother named (Ekun). This illicit relationship has led to the woman given birth to a baby boy which Baba Fryo is fathering, and relationship between Ekun and Mama Fryo still continue unabated. Now tell me what gain does this woman derive from this illicit affairs and what lesson is she teaching her children?
Undergraduate turn prostitutes   It is so common in some higher institutions  how  some female students especially from well to do families engage in prostitutions for material or fun gain, little wonder they become corporate  prostitute after leaving higher institution and working with corporate world. Some of them have been turn into sex machine by those shameless rich men, politician and elders who use their wealth to spoil those girls. These ladies having tested money would not mind being second wife to the wealthy man. And they will go at any learnt to achieve their mission. The result is that a marriage of so many years will turn to hatred.

BEST WAY TIPS ON HOW TO GET YOUR LOVER BACK

When it comes to trying to get your ex back, it means that you have to be willing to take a leap of faith.  After all, the relationship has already failed at least once and there is no guarantee that you will have any luck reconciling with your ex... that means quite a bit of strength. When it comes to reconnecting with an ex, there are some time proven techniques that have worked for many people and may well work for you to, these best way tips on how to get your lover back, are what this article is going to cover.

A word of caution, no matter how good these tips might be it's going to take a lot of time, patience, honesty and forgiveness on our part to make them work.  This process won't happen right away, it may take a long time, so if you're not completely committed to making things work out, you may want to just move on and forget any plans of getting back with your ex.

1. First things first, make sure that you are getting back with your ex for the right reasons. Too many times, people get back with their ex because they know them and it's more comfortable than having to try and find someone new.  If it's just the comfort that is making you want to get them back, you may want to reconsider since that is not a good basis for a relationship.

2. Be willing to fully acknowledge the mistakes you made the first time around.  Not only be willing to acknowledge them but be willing to change them.  If neither you or your partner is willing to make any changes, than your relationship can never change for the better, even if you do reconcile. 

3. Remember, that for all intents and purpose you and your ex are starting over again. You have to be willing to forget all the past fights and hurts. If one or both of you is going to hold on to them, than your relationship is over before it stats...again.

You need to romance each other again, it is very much like meeting someone for the first time.  That may sound odd since the two of you have a history, but there are still plenty of things you can learn from each other and about each other. 

4. Don't let your ex think of you as desperate. Make sure you give them space and live your life to the fullest.  This way they will see you as the person they fell in love with the first time around instead of someone who is just waiting in the wings for them if nothing better comes along.

No matter how hopeless it may seem, it is possible to get your ex back. One of the best things you can do is to use these best way tips on how to get your lover back.  Just be willing to take things slow and give it the time and attention it deserves, and even if it doesn't work out you can still move on and love again.

DATING, ABORTION AND DIVORCE IS IT MORAL

Today, there is so much noise about dating among singles.  This is largely copied from Western cultures.  Dating is about inviting someone of interest to you for an opportunity to start a relationship. Would you expect the one being dated to reveal her ugly side? If that relationship leads to marriage, then what was hid would be uncovered. Do not deceive yourself. Go to God and He will choose the right person for you.

Another crucial issue for the married is divorce. As far as God's Word is concerned, only death can separate a couple. Today, some people are arguing that the court can grant them divorce. But it is the court, not God.

That the court of the land honoured your divorce case does not mean that God has approved it. God has His standard which is written in the Bible and He does not have to bend to conform to the laws of the land. That some countries or states have legalized abortion does not mean that Heaven no longer regard abortion as sin. If you allow yourself to be carried away by the unrighteous laws of the land, remember, one day, both you and the judges of your nation will individually stand to be judged by the Word of God that is forever settled in Heaven.

On the other hand, were divorce to be allowed, does it add to or remove from you? The least it can do is to spoil your C.V.  If you want to take up a job and you fill in your form that you are divorced, it automatically alarms your potential employers that they are dealing with a failure. Responsible men and women are sought for very important positions in organizations.

If you are divorced, it means that you could not manage just one woman or at best with a few children: then how can you manage 10, 20, 50 or hundreds of employees? If a marriage fails or succeeds, everything can be traced to the head - the man. Are you married? Then you must do everything that is required for that marriage to work -excluding sinning against God. It is your duty to build your home. It is a thing of honour to hear that you keep your home and remained with one wife all through your days. You can join the winning married men and women today and let God have His way in your union.

Divorce is dealing with the symptoms and not the real cause of marital problems. Divorce is not a  strength but a show of extreme weakness.