WHO IS A REAL MAN? What your wife desires you to be

What your wife desires you to be

The desire of every woman is that their husband should be a real man; that is a man of honour and a complete gentleman. She would be extremely happy if you can grow to become a faithful man, a quiet man.

What does not make a Real Man?

The following things do not make you a real man. If you have them to be the man she is looking for:

Muscular body, ability to have erection, fat bank account, good friends network and communication, good job, political positions, chieftaincy titles, religious position, Baritone voice, Hairy Chest, Athletic body, big grammar and command of  English, Beautiful wife, ability to father a child, ability to marry a woman, big car, big house, international connections. All these can make you a man but not a real man.  A real man is quite different from just any man on the street.

The Making of a real man

I want you to relax and become the man your wife is looking for. She will be on top of the world if you transform to these

1. A real man is a man of God. He has a personal relationship with God. His life is being controlled by God and His commandments. He doesn't take any major decision without consulting his maker. His actions and reactions are controlled from the throne of mercy.

2.  A real man is a faithful man. He is faithful to God, to his calling, his wife and to his marriage vow. A real man is not a man of women, he is contented with his wife, and he doesn't look out for sex outside his matrimonial bedroom. He is not ready to destroy his marriage, his finances, his life and the stability of his home by sleeping around.

3.  A real man is a promise keeper. He must promise to love his wife, to take care of her, protect and defend her He must fulfill all the promise he made to her before marriage.

4.  A real man is a man of purpose. He knows the reason he was born and he is ready to give it his all.

5.  A real man is a man of passion. He does not only have purpose, he has turned his purpose to his passion. He is overwhelmed by his purpose with a burning desire to give it what it takes.

6.  A real man is a man of vision. He has a vision, he has a mental picture of what he want his life to be and he knows when he gets there.

7.  A real man is a man of prayer. A real man is a solid man on his knees, he doesn't joke with prayers. He prays everyday for his wife, children, business and future.

8.  A real man is a man of growth. Most men stop learning as soon as they graduate from school but a real man is still a student after graduating. He knows schooling is for a while but educating is for life.

9.  A real man is of wisdom. Since he is still learning, he is wiser than his mate in all areas of life. Because he is a man of wisdom, he knows how to use the available to get the desirable. He is never stagnant. He is progressive

10. A real man is current. He is up to date. He is full of information. He is not backward. He knows that anybody that is not current cannot be correct.

11.   A real man is a man of fellowship. He has a leader, a 'father' a tutor and a mentor. He is not auto drive. Most men don't have anybody they submit to but a real man has. He has somebody that can instruct, correct and even rebuke him. He has not grown beyond followership

12.  A real man is a great leader. He is a leader, not a boss. He is a shepherd not a cattle rearer. He is a driver not a garrison commander.

13.  A real man is a man of the field. He is not lazy. He is not a lay-by, he is a man of the field not a man o f bed. He wakes early to do something great with his life.

14.  A real man is a man of character. He is a complete gentleman, meek and gentle. He is truthful, loving and caring. He is reliable and dependable. He is also a man of integrity.

15.  A real man is a man of provision. No man can be said to be manly if he cannot provide for his family. A real man will do everything legally to provide for his home.

16.  A real man is a DADDY.  A real man is not just a father, he is a daddy.  Of course any man that can have and erection can father a child.  That makes him a father not a daddy. A daddy performs more than sperm donation he is  D- dependable in every area of life  A. Available to raise the children.   D – Discipline. He disciplines himself to get the best for his family.  D – Distinct he is a man of distinction.  A good example to his children.  A good leader and lover, a man of integrity and credibility.

Y. Yoked. He is yoked with his family, he is not a run-away father or a midnight husband, he is there for his action.

A real man is a lover. He is not just a husband; he is a lover, a friend, a play mate with his wife. He is in love with his wife and he is not hiding it. He is romantic. Caring and kind. He gives love and attention to his wife. He is a quality husband, a loving leader at home, not a dictator or a commander in chief of family forces.

 Sources: Success Digest Extra